Hello, world! (Yes, that’s the classic programmer greeting, but it feels fitting as I reboot this blog…again). Blogging isn’t new to me, I started way back in 2008 when social media was still figuring itself out, and TikTok sounded like a clock. Over the years, I’ve had multiple blogs, written countless posts, and then deleted every single one. Why? Well, I’m an introvert. Sharing my thoughts with the world makes me feel like I’m standing on stage in my pajamas. But here I am, starting again, because this time, I want it to be different.
So, let me tell you a bit about myself. I’m the kind of person who prefers quiet over crowds and books over parties, but life keeps pushing me out of my comfort zone. In 2024, one of the most life-changing moments was performing Umrah with my wife and my mom. It was a deeply spiritual journey, and I’m incredibly grateful for that opportunity. Makkah’s tranquility, the unity of believers, and the moments of prayer alongside my loved ones were unforgettable. I like to think my introverted heart found a rare kind of peace there, you know, surrounded by millions, yet so connected to my inner self.
Another thing I’m thankful for is my job. It keeps me grounded, even when life feels like juggling a Rubik’s Cube blindfolded. And let’s not forget 2025’s new adventure: I’m heading back to school to pursue a Master’s in Social Science, starting in March. Yes, this introvert is stepping into classrooms and group discussions, all in the name of personal growth. Wish me luck, I’m probably going to need it.
Now, about the name of this blog: Wisewira. It’s inspired by my dad, who passed away in 2021. It’s been three years, but I miss him every single day. He was my pillar, wise, insightful, and always ready with guidance (or a comment about everything under the sun, including my blogging attempts). He was a Master’s degree holder himself, and I still remember what he told me when he graduated in 2000: “This is your challenge. You’ll achieve even more.”
So, this journey into academia? It’s partly for him. I can imagine him now, reviewing my coursework, probably telling me where I can improve and what I should’ve done better. But that’s just who he was, Abah always pushing me to grow, to be better. I carry that motivation with me every day.
Now, here’s something else about me: I’m still a pretty secretive person. Whatever you read out here might be my inner monologue honestly, I might not even remember writing it! My circle of friends and connections seems to keep changing too, which feels a bit odd because, let’s face it, I’m not that young anymore. At this age, you’d think I’d settle with one group of people, but no. Instead, I’ve got a mix of different clans, each with their own quirks.
And then there are my old colleagues and friends from primary school, secondary school, even my earlier career days which nowhere to be found. It’s ironic, really, living in an age of social media where everyone is just a DM away, yet the silaturrahim feels absent. Maybe it’s me. Maybe I’m just not good at keeping those connections alive. It’s something I need to reflect on.
As I step into 2025, I’m hopeful. Hopeful that this blog will stick around this time. Hopeful for personal and professional growth. Hopeful for meaningful connections, even if I prefer the comfort of solitude. And most of all, hopeful for a year where I honor the lessons of the past while embracing the opportunities ahead.
Here’s to making 2025 a year to remember for myself, for my family, and for anyone who might stumble across this little corner of the internet. Welcome to Wisewira : where the introverted, the curious, and the reflective find a voice. A space for thoughts, journeys, and everything in between. Let’s begin.